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Parents spank kids to not only discipline them,

but it helps the parents release their anger and frustration. I see how bratty and annoying kids are, and i finally understand why the hell parents smack their kids. Maybe if kids stop being such doucebags, i would sympathize for them. Otherwise, i would understand why parents do it.

From my family, my parents smacked us since we’re asians; i’m sure about every asian has endured spanking. I see deven’s family, where he and his brothers has never been spanked, and they take for granted so many crap that would make me cry if my mom did that for me; also, they’re more dickwad and dependent on their damn parents. It really makes me… speechless and say, “How… can you guys… leave such a mess to make your mom clean up?” or “How… can you not give your mom a hug… after she did that for you? 

See, this is how i view it: when parents spank, they bring authoritativeness; whereas when parents do not spank, kids seem more authoritative than their parents. Well, that’s the problem. I don’t condone violence especially to kids, but it’s just wrong to let kids overpower and manipulate their parents as well. Sure, i’m know i’m pretty much damaged emotionally with all the spanking i have received, where i feel violent towards anything. However, for kids to disrespect their parents when their parents has done something amazing for them, that’s when there’s a problem. 

I wonder if deven’s parents has done the take-away-method from deven when he was bad at his younger age as he turned on normal. But his parents don’t really do that to his little brother even when he’s a douche, and it makes me say, “Whaaaaaaaat?! My mom would have spanked me so hard and took away all my toys.” Sometimes they give him more toys! What?!

I really do not know what to support. I don’t want to support spanking because it’s obviously wrong morally, but kids are just fucken ASSHOLES to their parents. I also don’t know if it’s because i’ve been spanked that it’s just a natural instinct or answer to do to kids when they’ve done something wrong. Honestly, if i was dicky like kids nowadays, i totally forgive and understand all the spanking my mom has given me; she should have punched me in my damn face! 

I swear when i have kids and they do something bad, i’m just going to my room and cry my frustration because i don’t want to spank them, but i know they’re going to be such dicks to me.